...Solomon
One of the lessons we can learn from the life of David's successor to the throne of Israel, his son Solomon, is that you can never take it for granted that you're going to stay on the straight and narrow, even if you've got just about everything going for you.
Solomon was off for a brilliant start when he asked God not for riches or power, but for wisdom, and God was so proud of him that he gave him all the other things on top. Unfortunately, Solomon's wisdom did not keep him from straying from the Lord's path, and it's questionable, whether any one of us would have been able to withstand the manifold temptations Solomon saw himself subjected to.
Of course, he did so by his own choice, just as we all have to make our own choices. But personally, what I glean from this is, that sometimes "more is less." In other words, even if God is as generous to bless you with untold riches and fame, even though you may not have asked for it, it doesn't necessarily mean that you should heap on yourself every possible luxury you can.
After all, most of us know what a challenge it can sometimes be to please a single wife… but 700? That's asking for trouble, even in as Chauvinistic a society as pre-Christian era Judaism!
I'm sure that Solomon must have had some struggles along the lines of making up his mind as to whom he was going to please: God or (wo)man.
But there is a story that illustrates this point even better than the fate of Solomon, who had it all, and because he had it all, in the end caused his kingdom to lose it all…

(Heavenly input on [and from] Solomon:)

…The Young Prophet and the Old Prophet
 
Two nameless characters in the 13th chapter of the first book of Kings teaches us one of the saddest and yet most remarkable lessons we can glean from the entire Bible, at least for those who feel called to be servants or prophets of God. It's a very sobering lesson, and thus should not be missing in this book, even if the men by whom it is brought may be totally unknown to us.
It illustrates in another way what I was trying to portray as the most significant lesson I glean from the life of Solomon. It's that you don't have to accept everything life hands you. In fact, sometimes you shouldn't.
I'm not going to retell the story, since you can read the chapter for yourself. Probably you'll find that this is one of those stories after which you'll put your fists to your sides, shake your head at God and say, "How could You be so utterly unfair?" It took me a few decades until I finally got the point that - as with all His other "atrocities," God also meant well with us in teaching us a very important lesson, even if it cost the younger prophet his life.
In my own life, the lesson has taken on immense significance at one time or another, because - as is the tricky point about this story - often those who come closest to causing us to err from God's path are not our adversaries, nor the people we don't like, but the folks we look up to.
The blatant lesson in this is something God has told me personally over and over again. It's really only 100% safe to rely on Him alone, and no one else. But as I said, this only applies to those whom God has personally chosen to serve Him, to whom He has spoken personally, and revealed His will. Most people will need some kind of leader or shepherd to tell them what to do. But if God has called you to be a prophet, you had better double-check with Him everything even your "older prophets" tell you to do, just to make sure that it's also what God wants for you!
When we look at established religion today, and we wonder how in the world it could have ever veered so far away from the path Jesus and His early disciples cut out for us, a path in which they were personally led by the leading of His Holy Spirit, which caused them to win sometimes thousands of converts in a single day, all of whom "lived together and had all things in common…" the dream of any Communist (see Acts 2:44, 45); there were no church buildings in which they worshiped God, because they knew that He doesn't live in temples made with hands (Acts 7:48, 49), but "ceased not to teach and preach daily in every house" (Acts 5:42)… If we see the contrast between what is and what should be when it comes to Christianity and the way it has been practiced for the past 16 centuries, then we may begin to get a glimpse of why that old lesson was so serious.
If we would listen more to God and His Word and what He has to tell us, in order to let others, be they pastors, preachers, heads of churches, or men (and women) of whatever title lead us astray from the path God clearly laid out for us in His Word, then history, I'm sure, would have taken a different course.
The more you get to know God's people, the more you'll realize why He said, "My people are a peculiar people." The modern common word for peculiar; I guess, would be "weird." And there's a reason for it. God wants us to look at and rely on Him, not people.

Most of us are fairly sociable folks. We go by what other people do, and what they say or think about us. We try to please people, and we aim at being respected by them. As far as we're concerned, God has one big disadvantage in comparison to our fellowmen: we can't see Him. So, it comes a lot more natural to us, trying to please people (and sometimes bending over backwards in our attempts to do so), whom we can see, rather than a God we cannot see.
The problem with that, and it's a very common problem, is that we tend to make a god out of people: their opinions of us, our status with them, etc., and it boils down to having another "god" before Him; in fact, dozens, hundreds or even thousands of them. And we know from the 10 Commandments that God won't tolerate that.
It takes a strong man to buck the tide of the general consensus, let alone to turn down a tempting offer from an elder, solely based on a conviction to obey something perhaps slightly controversial that God has shown him personally.
So, if you don't want to share the younger prophet's pitiful fate and spiritually die and find yourself torn apart by the brute beasts of this world, you had better stick to whatever it is God has shown you and laid on your heart to do, even if the whole world tells you something different, and that may include even the leaders of your own congregation.
They may not deliberately lie to you, as the old prophet in the story did, but they may nonetheless tell you to do something which may not be God's personal will for you, if you have been receiving his revelations of His will in your life. One way to find out and make sure is to ask Him. The young man of God could have stopped to pray, "Lord, is this older brother here telling me the truth, or is it a test from You?" Especially when something anyone tells you contradicts what God has already told you, there is no degree to which you shouldn't go in order to double-check and make sure that this is truly God's will and His voice.

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...Jeremiah