…John

Did you ever notice that it only mentions John as being there at the crucifixion & John being the only disciple who didn't die a martyr's death?

You can carry your cross by helping others to carry theirs, & in so doing, you help Me carry Mine. There are those who forget about their own burdens & crosses for the sake of others, & in order to help them carry theirs. That's turning the power outwards instead of inwards, which has a secret, greater reward: the joy & happiness of truly living for others.
That's what it's all about. My way to Calvary was not for Myself, but for countless others, yes, even for the High priests & those who hated Me the most... for You & each & every soul ever to be born into this World. It's a spiritual thing. But you can help Me carry that cross by doing whatever you do unselfishly to help others make it in their struggle up their personal hill of Golgatha.

I've got a heart for those like John, the only one who didn't desert Me in My darkest hour, when all the others ran. Self-preservation was their game. But not John's. His devotion was stronger.

John, as you can see from the things he wrote, was definitely one of those who learned that love is above all, & he reminded the brethren of the importance of love & to love each other.

John understood that if I was the living Word of God made flesh, you have to consume Me to become a part of Me. He repeated it over & over again in his gospel.